For most in our area, summer vacation has or is about to start. This means there will be an increase in the number of kids who are outside, in their neighborhoods biking, scootering, shooting hoops, and just plain playing (like we did when we were young.) While it's awesome to have the kids nearby, and playing together outside, it's important as parents not to settle into a false sense of security and safety.

Kids enjoying summer vacation at the lake


Yes, we may live in Maine where we don't have the same level of crime as some other big cities, but there are still risks out there. And now is the perfect time to have that ever-important talk with your kids about strangers.

Crazy is everywhere. And the times we are living in right now have led some folks to desperate measures. That's not hype talking. It's just the way it is.

As parents, it's our job to make sure our kids are armed with information. Just as it's important to have a plan in case of a fire, it's also important for kids to know what to do if a stranger approaches them.

Last night I had a talk with my kids. They've been spending more time outside biking and playing with their friends--and while they don't leave the neighborhood, there's been an increase in traffic down our street because of some construction projects nearby. So I thought it was time I checked in with them to see if they remembered what to do if someone they don't know comes up to them and asks them if they want a ride.

We talked about some of the different methods people might use to get their attention. We went through the neighborhood and talked about who lived in what house and what vehicle each neighbor drives. I want to make sure they are familiar with their surroundings. We talked about what to do and where to go if they felt scared or threatened. We talked about traveling in groups, not straying from the pack, and keeping an eye out for the younger kids who are playing with them. We talked about using our voices, yelling, screaming, and making a big fuss if anyone comes into our personal space and makes us feel uncomfortable. We also talked about trusting our instincts, not keeping secrets, and talking to a trusted grown-up if we feel worried about anything.



For the most part, there's always an adult who has eyes on the kids when they play outside. I'm grateful to live in a neighborhood full of vigilant moms, dads, and grandparents who are all on alert and nearby should something happen. But, on the off chance one of these kids ends up in a situation where there isn't a grown-up nearby, and at the ready, I want them to know exactly what to do to keep themselves safe.

For tips on how to start talking with your kids about strangers, has a good article with ideas on how to phrase things and what information kids should be learning at what age. has some great thoughts on how to approach the idea of stranger danger with facts, not fear. And the National Crime Prevention Council offers a pretty comprehensive look at what we can do as parents to inform our kids of the risks that are out there and how to handle them.

The bottom line: have the talk. Get them familiar with their surroundings. And develop a plan.

And it's worth mentioning that it's also a good idea to keep an eye out for strange behavior, even when it doesn't involve your kid. If you notice a child is uncomfortable or looks in distress, don't look the other way. It's always worth asking the kid if there's a problem or if they need help. I'd rather look and feel like an idiot and be told no, than miss an opportunity to help someone in need.

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